Hello I’m 23yrs old Id like to tell my story. So at the time I was 18 when we got together. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years. We had our first daughter on Christmas of 2010. Well everything was going great till the summer of 2012 came and his ex girlfriend before me was still around. She’d hang out with the people he did and he had gone to a party down the street from where we were living at this moms and she was there. I guess they were drunk and ended up having sex but he feels like she took advantage of him because she knew about me and our daughter but didn’t give a damn. At the same time she was sleeping around with my cousin who was married and my boyfriends best friend. She ended up pregnant and she kept saying it was my boyfriend’s baby she was pregnant with, but he was in denial because at the time she was sleeping around with three people. || The kid was born April 27 2013 and she tried getting in contact with him but from the beginning he wanted nothing to do with her or that child. It hurt me hearing things about her and the kid. June 1 2013 I end up pregnant with our second daughter and she had found out so she tried getting him for child support for $400 which I think is a lot for one child but that couldn’t be done until a DNA test. So he took it so people would stop bothering him about and just get it over with but when the results came back he was in shock. He didn’t expect for that little boy to be his. || Any who what I am trying to get at is we were still together while this all happened. Look I didn’t sign up to be a stepmom to a child that isn’t mine. I mean I could understand if the little boy was in the picture before me but he wasn’t. I had started a family with my boyfriend before and well I tried being the bigger person. When she came to our house wanting my boyfriend being a part of his sons life so I accepted him. But for some reason she thinks just because they have a kid together he’s going to leave me and my our girls for her and makes me look bad when I have done nothing but take that child in as my own.. And I just can’t seem to forgive either one for what the did. My questions is what do I do? It hurts me even writing about this or when I see the little guy.