Well lets add to her discusting homewrecking whoreness why dont we? jeffery ard WAS my husbands best friend it was a big surprise to us to hear jeff was getting married to some chick he met on CRAIGSLIST the bridal shower was set up and we attended with beer and a gift and thats where we met vanessa..she and i quickly made friends of corse!!! my husband and i have SIX children we had costody of all of them we werent able to attend the wedding in july 2014 bc it was out of state and we didnt have the funds to do so…anyway after the wedding they came to visit us at our home with our children weekly by november of 2014 my hubbys ex wife took their three kids from us stopped letting us see them and filed child support i was a stay at home mom and my hubby worked 60+ hrs a week to support our household well child support became to much and he was stressed out january 2015 we started to lose everything i couldnt find a job after 5 yrs of just being a wife and mother so by feb 2015 we had to move the kids and i went to my moms and my husband to jeff and vanessas there wasnt room for all of us in either place so we had to seperate while we saved money to get back on our feet well vanessa and her mother kelly barrs flashed their money around my stressed out husband best they could its funny cause jeff and vanessa made out like they were so in love and ment for each other but really jeff was a lazy peice of shit sucking up vanessas money march 2015 less than a yr after they married theyre devorcing and shes sleeping with his best friend my husband in their bed still married to jeffery sill wearing her wedding ring pretending to be my friend now she tells everyone we were never friends!! she and her mother suduceed him with their money paying off his child support buying him a motorcycle doing anything they could to keep him from his family witch only half assed worked cause he was with me every chance he got during their entire realationship sleeping with me and he brought me and our kids her money on a regular basis it only worked for so long he realized what an idiot he was and that this was just a midlife crisis and is now back with me and our family where he belongs!! Vanessa Lynn Barrs YOU ARE THE DEFINITION OF A HOMEWRECKING WHORE!!! and youll rot in hell for the pain you caused my family you deserve the shit hand life has dealt you (your health,the fact that you cant have kids) and whatever else…god dont like ugly honey and he damn sure wont send you another womans husband!! later you fucking skank!! oh yeah p.s hows my pussy and asshole taste? just curious!