My husband took a second job as a bouncer at a nightclub. I trusted him so it was fine. He started acting very strange so I looked into his phone records. I saw a number he was calling and texting all day everyday. I asked him about it and of course he lied. After days of asking and him still calling and texting he admitted what was happening. He said it had nothing to do with his job, but of course later I found out that wasn’t true and she did work there. He said nothing physical ever happened and we’d work through it. || We had a rough couple of weeks of me trying everything to repair our marriage. He didn’t do anything and refused counseling. I tried talking to her on social network with no response. He finally left and said it had nothing to do with her he was just unhappy. Of course I later found out he was living with her and was still in contact with her the whole time we were trying to”work things out.” I talked to her again and she blamed me and said it had nothing to do with her. Ha!