My ex-husband had started managing a store in the mall, where his one of his good friend’s wife also worked. My ex-husband was working long hours so we could save up money to buy our own house. I know he saw this woman a lot at the mall, but I wasn’t worried about it because he was good friends with her husband and we had met each other and she knew about me and our children. But eventually all the text messages where getting out of hand, and he would say they were just friends and I would say how inappropriate it was, and he said she needed someone to talk to because she was having trouble with her husband and they were breaking up. I told him it wasn’t right how much they talk and he said it would stop, and I thought it did. Well one night I just happened to look at a text from her and it asked if my ex-husband had the kids this weekend? I thought to myself, why wouldn’t he have his kids, he had them all the time, it’s not like we are separated? Well I brought it up to him and he just played it off like she must have meant if he was working or something, he then proceeded to tell me I have nothing to worry about, because she was pregnant with some man’s baby, because her and her husband had recently separated. I then mentioned how could somebody with any self-respect separate from her husband and then get pregnant with another man’s baby so quick, what kind of role model is she for her teenage daughter. || Well the next morning, I sent her my own text stating, that he is my husband, you have your own, plus your new baby daddy, and to leave my husband and family alone. She replied with a text saying”Sorry, I thought you knew about us”. That is a moment in my life that I can never forget, the feeling I had in my stomach was unexplainable. All I know is that I would never want anyone to feel what I felt right then. It turns out my ex-husband had her believing that we had separated and that the only reason he has to come home every night is so he can help me put the kids on the school bus. I’m a stay at home mom, and capable of walking my son down the driveway to meet the bus. Turns out, this baby she was carrying was my ex-husbands. I know she knew the truth, but if she admitted it, how would it look for her to be sleeping with a married man and then proceed to get knocked up by him. Well we tried to work, but it wasn’t happening, I was always questioning him, and he kept secretly seeing her. I would pack his bags, he never took them, said he wanted to stay, so I unpacked them, just to find out he was seeing her, so once again I would pack his bags, but he kept refusing to take his stuff out of the house. Well, one day, I made it easier for him, I took all his stuff, threw it in the yard, grabbed a 6 pack, and proceeded to have a bonfire with his stuff. He then told me she had an abortion, but they started seeing each other again and about 2 months after her abortion, the slut went and got pregnant again. || Well, they are still together, but needless to say when this all came out, they lost all of their friends because we all had a lot of the same friends, but me and her ex-husband kept them all, and they have none. Supposedly, they are engaged, she still has to wait for her divorce to become final, but calls my ex her hubby on Facebook, and she and him also have told our children that her kids and my kids are step siblings and makes my kids think that she is her step mother already. It bothers me soooo much, but I don’t want to yell at the kids to stop because I don’t want to upset my kids, so I let it go. || He always said that the reason for him cheating was because we were growing apart and all he did was work and he didn’t think that I cared that he wasn’t around because I never nagged him for working all the time. Just excuses, because if I did nag, then that would have been his excuse.