Stephanie works with my husband in the national guard. My husband and I became friends with Stephanie and her husband and would hang out on the weekends. They all drink way too much and since we both have kids I stopped hanging out. This causes my husband and I to not be so close. One night Stephanie’s sister text me to say my husband and Stephanie had ditched her and everyone else and could not find them. They were found later at a bar together. A few days after that her sister had a party and Stephanie’s husband said Stephanie was following my husband around like a lost puppy. || A couple weeks after that my husband and I got into it because he was over at their house way too much and had become a complete drunk. I said if he continued this lifestyle we would end up getting a divorce. He said he didn’t want that and loved me very much. Over the next few week my husband suddenly became hooked to his phone and was mean to me. The day before thanksgiving my husband said we needed to talk. He said he loved me but wasn’t in love with me. He said we should get a divorce. The next day I got on facebook and seen Stephanie’s husband had posted that they were getting a divorce. That’s when I realized what was going on. I checked the phone records and seen that Stephanie had called or text my husband every 5 minutes of the day since my husband and I had the fight about him being at the Herrera house. || Since then there has been a lot of text forwarded and screen shots of private facebook stuff that shows my husband is practically living with her. He still tells me even tho she is obsessed with him he has told her many times he is not sexually attracted to her and couldn’t see her as anything but a friend. I think he is playing us both.