I’m not the ex-wife, or ex-girlfriend that got cheated, I’m the daughter that lost her”dad” and her family. It started when I played on the same softball team as the homewreckers daughter. We were the same age and we were best friends, as were our moms and dads. She was married with three girls and my mom and dad were married with three kids. Our softball team went to state playoffs so we all traveled to Rockwall and stayed in a hotel. All night our parents would sit outside and talk till late, but my mom would come in early and go to bed. My dad and the homewrecker would stay out all night; we didn’t think anything of it. She was supposed to be my mom’s best friend. My mom and dad started fighting a lot, and his drinking got really bad. She started suspecting things so she checked his phone records to find them texting and talking all day long and then it would stop at night, when he was supposedly”working late”. My mom took my softball bat to the windshield of his 63 Chevrolet, and threw everything he owned on the lawn, my dad came home drunk and high and drug my mom out of her bed and threw her against the wall trying to choke her, her screaming woke up my brother who pushed him into the wall and we all ran next door to my grandma’s house. || The next day my mom filed for divorce and told her husband everything and she lost her family just like we did. Seven years later my dad still won’t sign the divorce papers because he believes it’s a sin to get a divorce. It’s a sin to commit adultery too dumbass! Since then my dad has been anything but a dad. He would catch the last 5 minutes of my softball game but watch Stephanie’s daughter’s entire game after mine. I haven’t spoke to him in about a year. They both knew their consequences when they started sleeping around, and they got what they deserved! They deserve each other, because once a cheater always a cheater! He couldn’t even be a father to his own kids, what makes you think he will father yours?