I have been with my fiance Manuel Ruiz for thirteen years. We have had a great relationship and friendship until 2013 which was a very hard year. Everything was so rocky when we met Stasia. She was a single mother of four, three boys and one girl all different daddies. We moved into her house while we looked for a bigger place for all of us in order to roommate. She had been sleeping with my Fiance’s brother Kenny at the time. || Things started going downhill fast. I noticed drastic changes in my fiances attitude and behavior towards me. All the people who were around us began talking and hinting that they were having an affair . They began to constantly wear each others clothes, shoes, jewelry. She swore she would never be one of those girls who would do that. He swore they had never been intimate in any way with tears running down his face.I went on a trip to visit my oldest child and father in Weiser Idaho for about two weeks. We talked constantly on the phone and once I returned I was asked to stay and babysit her kids because she had to go to family’s at the lake and the kids couldn’t afford to miss school. I agreed and while she was gone I found a positive pregnancy test in her drawer as I was putting away her laundry. When she called I asked her and she said Kenny was the dad. I agreed to help her in any way I could. || Meanwhile things kept getting worse until we separated me and my fiance. Shortly after Christmas he came to me and admitted that not only had they been having an affair since the day after we moved in, but it was his child. I fell to my knees. It hurt so bad that I had physical pain in my chest. We are trying to make things work and she is constantly trying to use the baby to intrude threatening to leave state with it. She was supposed to be my friend.