It started when my husband met this girl who wanted to get her picture drawn by him. They ended up being friends and he helped her out because he felt sorry for her. She was a single mom who seemed down in her luck. I never met this girl, but I trusted his judgement that she was a decent person. I mean why wouldn’t I trust him. Most of the awesome people I’ve met was through him. Well in this case, that was not true at all. She was nothing but a manipulative person who was scheming to try to get my husband to leave me. The truth slowly started to unravel back in October when she called My husband on his phone screaming and yelling about how she was gonna kill herself. Now, suicide is personal for My husband and me as we’ve had family and friends who have killed themselves. So, we take that shit seriously. So that day that the girl threatened to kill herself, he spoke to me and my mom. We all agreed that he call a wellness check on her. I mean we didn’t know what she was gonna do. She had a little girl and we were worried about what she may witness, or she may get hurt herself. So, my husband called 911 and spoke to a cop who went to check on her. She had even texted my husband about killing herself and she forwarded that msg to the cop as proof. Then after a couple of hours, she sends My husband a text and all it was “wow”. And that was it. After that we didn’t hear from her. Now, My husband began to worry. I mean here’s someone who My husband had called friend who contemplated suicide and we didn’t hear from her. We didn’t know if she was alive or dead. So, My husband sent emails trying to get a response, so he knows she’s okay. Well unfortunately, those emails bit him severely in the a55. One thing was some were sent while he was drunk and well you know. After sending a lot of emails, he finally stopped and said “Fuk it. I’m done.” But it wasn’t done cuz one morning a cop knocked on our door and presented My husband with a restraining order. Apparently, there’s a law stating that if you send more than 10 emails within 2 months despite the length or content, you can get in legal trouble. So, My husband was like okay that’s fine. He accepted that restraining order. At least by her doing that it proved she was alive. Now the papers he was given stated that he could go to court to appeal it, but he was like “Why?”. So, he called the courts and told them that he didn’t need to appeal anything and whatever they decided was fine with him. And that was the end of it, right? Oh, we were so fuking wrong. Because sh1t hit the fan the next day. Two cops showed up and asked my husband if he knew this girl and sent her all these emails. He said yes. One of the cops had a large stack of papers. Apparently, this girl printed out every email he sent to her. This was enough to get him arrested. Yep sending emails can get you arrested. And no, none of the emails he sent were threatening in anyway. Most said was hey, making sure you’re okay. Worried about you. Others were him trying to empathize with her by saying that there are times when he felt like giving up. Anything to garner a response. And response she did. So, he stayed in jail for at least one night. Because of that he had to wear an ankle monitor. She lied on the police report saying he was just a customer she met and known for a few months. That was a blatant lie as we have proof of that he was a friend for nearly five years. She would call and text asking him to help her move or help pick up her daughter from daycare. After months of back and forth, we finally came to a resolution. He is to stay away from this girl for 1 year. No contact what so ever. We’re fine with that. Now that was the civil case. Now because he was arrested, there was a criminal case against him. The resolution for that was he would be on probation for 3 months and that was it. The ankle monitor was taken off which was a relief. And we’ve met with My husband’s probation officer twice already. Now the last time he talked to the probation officer, he was told that Feb 21 will be the last day he needs to show up. After that he was done. No more probation. So truthfully, the probation lasted less than 3 months. So that’s what happened. Here’s the sad part. My husband was warned by several people including his mom about this girl, but he didn’t listen. He’s known or thought he knew her for 5yrs. When this all happened, a lot of things came out. One was the fact she sent him explicit videos and pictures of herself trying to entice him. Now he never did anything, but he admitted he was flattered. But this whole this has been one huge fustercluck. And the really sad part was she actually thought we would break up. She had no clue who I am and that I will fight for what is mine. She thought she would try to have me doubt my husband’s love for me. When she didn’t get her way the first time, she falsified a police report. Now I so wanted to go to court and bring that b1tch’s lies out for all to see. I wanted…still want her to burn figuratively and literally. but in the end, we just want it to be done and over with. This is the kind of person who is pathetic and weak and doesn’t deserve any happiness. Oh and she plays the viictim alot.