So my baby’s father and I have been together for 14 years, we were married but divorced, we’ve been back together for 7 years. We live in different cities right now due to his”financial issues”. Well, on the weekend of his last birthday, Sept, 4, 2012, after he had spent the weekend with me and our daughter, he went to the strip club with his buddies. He met a stripper by the name of Shilah Shoemaker. He kept her from me for 6 months until he added her on his Facebook. Then I see that she is posting pics of him all over her page. So, of course I asked him about her. He said that she was just some stripper whore that followed him home from the strip club and tried jumping his fence to get into the yard and to the door. He of course made her sound crazy. So even though I didn’t believe him, I let it go. || The following weekend he was back spending the weekend with us, I received a message from this female saying that she had picked out the teddy bear he was giving to my daughter and that there was a lot that I didn’t know and this female drove two hours from Columbus to go to the local mall by my house and call him, saying that they needed to talk. He told her to go home, that there was nothing here for her. After he left, I saw that she had posted something about being pregnant, so naturally I flipped out, calling him and texting him asking him to explain. I found out that she had known about us the entire time! Her friend on Facebook messaged me and told me because she didn’t like him and wanted them to be separated because he is a liar. He text me back saying that he had slept with her and she was pregnant, that’s when it came out that they had been seeing each other for 6 months. She tried to post on her page that she didn’t know about me or my daughter, which is a big fat lie, she sent a message about a bear she had picked out for MY DAUGHTER in the beginning of all this! || She is now currently threatening him with jail if he doesn’t stay with her, not mention numerous other demands. We are not together anymore, and my daughter is crushed by all of this. To this day, this HOMEWRECKER, posts all kinds of sarcastic posts referring to me and Karma has already returned the favor to her, he is cheating on her already! Justification…she deserves everything she gets!! To this day he’s still trying to get back with me, saying that she is a bitch and totally crazy, how big of a mistake he made messing with her, that he wishes this new baby was mine instead of hers. SMDH. || I will always care about him and he will be in our child’s life always. He claims he wants to us to move down there with him but I won’t, mainly because he is a cheating asshole and, the further myself and my child are away from her the better! I have attached the post she posted about”not knowing” and acting innocent, as well as a pic of her and the message she sent me.