So… this is my story. A story I am struggling to write, but a story I have lived. This has brought me to my knees. I feel so angry and hurt over this major violation, an unwritten code amongst women that you do not go after a married man. I feel that she’s not even human for the pain she has inflicted upon me and my kids. || My husband and I have been married for 37 years. In my story the OW re-surfaced in our marriage a 2ND time 30+ years later. Her name is Rena Nagata Tanaka. a.k.a.” Tomato” || A”loose” woman that first came on to my husband back in the summer of 1978. We had been married just one year. She was a 17 year old high school skank who was f*****g my husband in the back seat of HER car, she f****d him on the road at the local lover lane waterfall park (that only the locals knew about.) and finally in OUR bed. Only sluts do that ! || I asked my husband how it got started and he said that she basically made herself available and she pretty much laid down at his feet and opened her legs. || She almost managed to break us apart back in the late 70’s My mother in-law was in on it too. She was literally encouraging her son to leave me and go with her. She was cheating around on her husband too. The OW and my mother-in-law actually became good friends. Can you imagine? || Fast forward, 30 + years later, she’s now in her 50’s and she’s still trying to f**k my husband knowing full well he is still married to me! || I discovered that she and my husband had re-connected on FB. She made it known to him that she was still”available”. || We have 3 grown children, we built a whole life together through all the ups and downs. || When I first found out about all of this, I went into shock and disbelief. I asked her not to contact my husband or family ever again. She REFUSED. The sneaky home wrecker had the nerve to FB, e-mail, and call him. She went so far as to ask my husband to make sure that no-one saw their correspondence. This went on for over a year. I had no idea! || I wrote her an email saying what a pathetic piece of trash she was. What does she do? She’s calling my husbands office and he is refusing her calls. I write a second letter telling her we will get a restraining order if she does not stop. So… then she has the nerve to contact the office again. This time she has a friend on the Maui police force call the office and our home!! For what, I did nothing to deserve this. I violated no-one. A ho calling the police because I told her what I thought of her. Her call to the police went nowhere because she was the predator! || Because of her actions, our children now know!!! For that reason she is a nasty ho, so wrapped up in herself, all so willing to spread her legs again. She is a woman who is so disrespectful and immoral. She is like a disease spreading her toxic unethical ways into our family again. She honestly put herself out there AGAIN, and thought she could have my husband leave me for her. || She is not a threat. She wasn’t even attractive when she was doing my husband back in 1978. Take a look at her photo. She will forever be the OW because I am THE WOMAN. She deserves nothing, and has nothing. Things have truly come full circle for her.