Rachel is a true skank. My husband and her work together. They are both in the Military (She is now out). He had been coming home and talking about her like he does most people he works with. I thought nothing of it. We even went out for the Super Bowl with a bunch of his work friends. I was 9 months pregnant at that time. She was there and was very rude to me, and my husband laughed and claimed that’s her personality. We did not really click and that was a red flag. || Fast forward to the middle of March, My baby was now 2 weeks old, and Rachel decides she is going to text my husband for an average of 2 hours a night. I finally say something to my husband and it explodes into a huge fight. Yes the text messages were very harmless but it was not necessary to text my husband nonstop when you work together for 10 hours , especially with a newborn baby. One day he decides to delete text messages and I caught him doing this. It was a huge fight and two days later he lies to me and says he is going to change his oil. I confronted him right away and he came clean that it was for her car and her oil change. Later that night (EASTER!!!) he says he is going to clean his car and get some air after all of our fighting. I knew he was with her. I checked the phone records and saw that she had called him. He denied it swore on our brand new daughter that he did not hang out with her, in which I later found out they hung out at her apartment alone. Rachel then 2 days later decides to text my husband at 2am about her nightmares (claimed ptsd) and I finally ask her to stop texting my husband. My husband pushes me around because I want to text her and confront her. He calls me after going into work and talking to her that I can say something (He clearly thinks I’m stupid). I finally ask her to stop texting my husband. She gets nasty and blocks my number. I knew he was lying so I packed my baby up and drove to my mom’s house 12 hours away. Throughout that week we fought a lot to the point where he just stopped answering me. I sat there crying and crying over him thinking, “How can my husband just throw me to the curb?” || A week later I get a Facebook message from her roommate who is also their co-worker. I have never met her but she says that she is Rachel’s roommate and they are fighting because she confronted Rachel on what she was doing. She even shows me their text conversations which show Rachel saying she is going to show me since I told her to stop texting my husband. Everyone at work knew he was married and had a brand new baby. The roommate and her boyfriend proceeded to tell me that Rachel had been at my apt for 5 days and they went on dates together. They said Rachel had her uniforms and dog at my apartment. So I pack my baby up drive 12 hours secretly there and sure enough at 11pm, Rachel and her dog are in my apartment. My husband is in his boxer briefs and she is naked in my bed! He denies that he cheated over and over. I am fit to be tied and of course calling her every name in the book. She does not even acknowledge me and just lays in my bed! My husband defends her yells at me for the name calling and then LEAVES WITH HER and stay at a hotel. He pays for the hotel while he has not paid for a thing for our daughter. There is alcohol all around my apartment and all of my things are packed up and picture frames with pictures of my husband and I together are turned down. Of course I confront him and he denies it obviously. || I leave their 2 days later with all of her clothes, birth control, uniform, condoms, etc that she left. I find out she’s been there throughout the month. Of course he tries to come back to me promises me he has not talk to her at all. He sends me a singing telegram. On the day he sent me the singing telegram, I ask for his Verizon password in which he changed prior so I would not see if they talked or not. He proceeds to say he doesn’t remember it. So I reset the password in order to access the account, only to find out his phone line has been moved to her account. Her account is attached to her email, so I emailed her some of the text messages my husband has been saying about her and how he only wants me. I asked her to have him leave me alone since they are such good friends. I finally get in touch with her and she said she wants nothing to do with my husband anymore which is because she sees what a loser he really is. He is promising the moon and stars. I am so done with him. ON TO THE NEXT.