To start off with, my husband and I were going through an unusually long rough patch. I got the Mirena IUD on June 15th, and since I got it, I’ve bled every 3 out of 4 weeks. Naturally this makes me cranky and not want to get intimate. That’s how things started. One of my husbands friends were going through a bad breakup and needed someone to drink with. I was fine with that, as long as my husband didn’t drive drunk. Around the same time, he started volunteering on Sundays at an animal rescue, building a habitat for rescued tigers. || Well, the nights out became more frequent, but I believed his reasons. “His friend needed someone to talk to,” “the group at the rescue wanted to thank him for all his help by buying him a few beers,” or “he had a long day at work and needed to blow off steam.” I believed him, of course. Then nights out turned into not coming home. And on August 15th, he left. It was very painful for me, but I believed it was temporary. I admit I started snooping on his Facebook, he hardly ever came by and said he was sleeping in his truck, sip naturally I kept worrying about him like I did every night he was out. Until I saw one message, which I’ll include in the pictures, where he told her he loved her and called her baby. That was the morning of August 26th. || || I never would have believed he’d leave me for another woman, he always spoke very strongly about hating cheaters, since he was burned a long time ago by one. Eventually, I figured out which phone number was hers, and I looked at our phone records…. Thats when it got me the worst. They had been texting each other non-stop since JULY 9TH!!!!!!!! Imagine my surprise! This is yet to be finished, but I do have to mention my husband and his friend had a guys game night on the 15th, and said friend mentioned she was all over him that night, and not my husband. Which tells you something about her.