This woman Nicole Ratcliffe, was my husband’s ex-gf from high school. She started messaging him 8 years ago when I was pregnant with my son. About every year she would message him and want him to take care of her and her mixed kids and leave me and my children for them. Well she finally got him to leave me and my kids and has no shame in their father being across the country and not seeing them and she gets mad that he has to come home and see them. This girl believes everything that comes out of my husbands mouth, no we are not legally separated or divorced, but his chick thinks that he is faithful to her. When he is in OUR home visiting with his children he is MY BED with ME!! He has nothing to offer her or give her, but she thinks he is 100% with her, you just wait till I see you face to face and ruin you. My children want nothing to do with this woman and she wants to think they are hers since she never had a child with my husband. Well your kids could never look like mine and they will never be hers. She can pick’em, they all go to jail and don’t take care of their kids so she decided she needed to take mine from me so that her kids had a dad in their life and didn’t care destroying my children’s lives. I don’t usually wish bad things on people but this person I hope gets her own, and KARMA is a bitch when she realizes he is full of lies, he is good at them. She only dated him as a teenager and I have been with him for almost 12 years, I know him better then you do, he will lie and cheat and tell you he has all this stuff but he doesn’t, he is jobless and when he is done with you he will come running back to me, hence this is why we are not divorced, if he really wanted to be with this woman 100% he wouldn’t still be married to me and he doesn’t even advertise her on his facebook like he does me. Well when he leaves her dumbass then I will be the one laughing!