I have been with my husband for 20 years, been married 15. I was 14 he was 15 when we started dating. We have 5 amazing wonderful kids together 15, 14, 10, 7 and 3. We have had our problems our ups and downs like everyone but we truly loved each other. || My husband started doing drugs, meth and we fought and battled with that for years but I never left him because I loved him and wanted to help him. My kids love their daddy and I didn’t want to take that away from them so I stayed and put up with a lot of bullshit from John. I used to be friends with Neketa and her husband. We all 4 hung out and I babysat for her kids. Then I found out that cps was called on her for also doing meth and that’s when I found out that she was doing drugs with my husband. I was pissed because the whole time we were friends i asked her and her husband to help me to get John clean so we could be happy again. I love him and need him to be off the drugs because it was ruining our marriage. So as soon as I found out she was doing meth with him I ended the friendship, told her off and didn’t talk to her again. I told John that he shouldn’t be talking to her anymore either. He promised me he wasn’t. || Then my husband failed his drug test for probation. (He was on probation for dui) He got put in jail then he was out on work release. I was the one paying for everything, taking him back and forth to work, getting him supper, getting him a phone to be able to talk to me on and the kids, doing his laundry and taking it back to the jail for him etc. I was doing it all and taking care of 5 kids, going to all his court dates, writing him and visiting every weekend. Because now that he was in jail clean and sober, I had new hope that he would be the old John, the John I married. He was. We were happy again and I was learning to love and trust him again. Everything was great. After two weeks he lost his job for being on his phone. Then he snuck his phone into the jail to be able to talk to me and got caught with it so they are sending him to prison for the rest of his time, only until December. || So I picked up all his stuff from jail and find a text on his phone from Neketa saying I need to hear your voice! So I asked him on the phone when he called from jail and he says I never slept with her. So I go to confront her at her house and find out that he took her and her 8 year old daughter on our boat while I was home recovering from surgery with my 5 kids! He was writing her back and forth in jail and talking to her on the cell phone I got him to talk to me and the kids! I am so pissed that it isn’t even funny. They both ruined my 5 kids’ lives and I hate them both for what they have done! Whether they actually slept together or not in my book what they did do was still cheating! They were both married with kids and they ruined all of our lives!