Last month i got the uglyest gut feeling most people do when they know that their significant other was acting different. i asked my man of 9 years to be honest and tell me if anything was up… his response.. “your thinking crazy.. i love you”. so i left it alone… fast forward a couple days later, my gut is still not feeling it so i checked his phone facebook and there it was a private sync screen shot of a text convo. so my man is a ast manager at his job which makes him her boss. the text was a little to friendly for my taste. later in the week i go to check his full text convo with her but he deleted it! so what do i do? i install a retrieving app to his phone. i know i sound a little crazy but my feelings took over! so that day after i installed it we both left to work and throughout the day I was ablw to follow their convo via texting.. im not happy about what i found. im hurt. i did confront him and he admitted to me that he anx her were very flirty but didnt act on it. in my opinion, anyone who flirts with a person in a committed relationship the way that they were iz NEVER ok! it was such a slap to my face! our 9 year relationship was disrespected and now its broken with no trust and now has an unsure/ unknown future! i have to get through my day knowing they are at work together! thank you Maria for being the whore that you are i hope your man your friends and your family find out what kind of a “lady” you really are.