Seven years ago I thought I had met the man of my dreams. Coming out of a failed relationship I thought it was a blessing. He was tall dark and handsome and knew everything to say to make your heart melt. I wondered though why his previous relationships didn’t work. He worked out of town constantly and never knew when he’d be home and when he’d be gone and never knew the duration. I was fine with that. I enjoyed my time alone and also loved to travel. We had complete trust and there was no reason not to. We were soul mates. So when my daughter from a previous relationship was away id go visit him and we’d fall in love all over. It was amazing. We traveled. We had fun we were the couple that everyone wanted to be and strived to be like. Head over heels madly in love. The kind of love that you can be as close as you could possibly be and it didn’t seem close enough. || Two years into our relationship we decided to have children. He wanted an army. After trying for a while I conceived our first son. 14 short months later I had our second son. A dream come true, two handsome healthy boys. Being pregnant for two years put a strain on our relationship. Not in a drastic way but it was harder. We still worked as a team and I supported him in anything he wanted to pursue. At the beginning of 2013 we had made the decision to relocate our family. He started a job in California and I course I stayed home in Texas(his office is out of Dallas and we would relocate to Dallas) to raise our family. I began to prepare our house to be out on the market. We rented a storage and I began cleaning out items and packing away. Little did I know he had started to have an affair while on his job. Never once did he tell me he was unhappy. Never did our sex life take a back seat. As far as I knew we were planning to start fresh he’d be home every day, we’d get to cook together and our family would be amazing. But no. This little 25 year old, I’m not going to say woman because she isn’t, thought it would he ok to pursue him. A contractor subbed out for a job they were doing. She knew he had a family. And she knew I was at home with his children while they lived in a fantasy world far from reality. And when I finally got him to admit there was someone else he said”I wish I never would have left home” but he had to follow”his heart” more like his dick! || So now here I am with my kids and they are in their fantasy world doing marathons and living the life. There’s more to the story, more details, more betrayal. I just can’t get any more of it out. I know karma will come back around to them. So for now I’ll sit back and raise my boys to be better men and live my life for my children. I will never live for another man again. I have the best part of him. She can have the rest because we all know the saying,”If you were the other woman, you’ll never be the only woman” oh. I forgot to mention the best part of it all. He left me over the phone. Yes ladies, over the phone from California after he had been home for a weekend for our sons fourth birthday. The affair had been going on for months but he decided to do it over the phone instead of face to face. We still have not till this day talked face to face. And then after he left me over the phone it took me two more weeks to get it out of him that there was another women. What a chicken shit right?! I found out who she was through his friends. He was in absolute shock when I threw her name out. I wish I could have seen his face.