Lindsey Waldron.. A name I’ll never forget since the night of 12-23-14. My husband and I have been together for 12 years with 3 children. We were on a holiday trip in LA to take the kids to Disney land. It’s been a crazy year for us since he had to be in NJ for his job since June 2014. We’ve been together since our sophomore year in high school and have never been apart or challenged this way. After traveling from our home in WA to LA, he was tired from the trip and driving. We just arrived in our hotel room and he fell asleep. I was tucking the kids in bed when I hear his phone vibrate. He had a message from this Lindsey Waldron on an app called kik. I threw him the phone and I demanded an explanation. On the messages I read how he missed her and asks her for pictures. He had a whole story made up, saying they met when she cut his hair and have gone out twice. No sex, just a kiss. Of course stupid me believed him.. I asked to talk to her to confirm the”story” and she said exactly the same thing. I asked, more so begged for her to stop contacting him. She said her apologies and said she’ll stop. || Of course the asshole husband also said I can trust him when he goes back to work in NJ and that he’ll be home in April and we’ll all be a normal family again. That’s when everything really happened as I placed a spy app on his phone to confirm if he is having an affair. I knew in my gutt instinct that I can’t trust him. I also activated att family map, yes his phone is under my line! I was able to see everything.. Where he goes.. Which is where she worked as a bartender at black Betty’s saloon on weekends. Also the spy app confirmed he purchased a”throw phone” because he asked his coworker one day about it through a text message which I was able to see from across the country. I also found out that Lindsey Waldron works with my husband. So their story was a lie. During all this, Lindsey and I kept in contact because she continues to confirm with me that she’s not talking to my husband. She also expressed her sympathy to me.. Saying she feels bad and I don’t deserve this while screwing around with him. She would stay the night at the apartment where my husband and two other coworkers stayed (all three are married men). I opened up to her about how he’s my first love and she would sympathize and share with me about her first love. On the days my husband doesn’t pick up, she says she’ll be with her ex trying to work things out but she’s actually with my husband. I just don’t understand how a human being could treat someone like this, how she can pretend to feel bad for a wife and her kids and at the same time have sexual relations with her husband. Towards the end she even told him she loves him. Of course they ended things when I keep catching them. Whatever happened it ended between them, and of course I took him back.. We tried to work things out.. But as we all know the trust is definitely gone. I know he is to blame!! I can’t deal with him any longer!! I’m finally letting my high school sweetheart go.. I told him if she was worth all those lies to the woman he made vows to then he should just be with her! I can’t deal with a man who screws around with easy women. I can’t put up with someone who chooses an easy hoe over his wife and children. As for Lindsey, I actually feel bad for her.. She’s only 22.. And I keep hearing she’s had sexual relations with more than just one guy at my their construction job. It’s so sad when one, especially a woman doesn’t value herself and just puts herself out there for anyone to touch and screw around with. To all the wives out there.. We have to be diligent.. You never know what kind of people our husbands are exposed to.. To those who have faithful husbands.. You’re lucky!! But be mindful that there are women like Lindsey out there who won’t stop even after knowing of your personal life with your husband. There are women out there who don’t have a heart and who will keep pursuing your husband. It’s true, how if there weren’t women like her then husbands wouldn’t be able to cheat! If you’re one of those women, please think of the people you’re affecting and not just yourself.. There are plenty more fish in the sea.. Why choose one that’s already taken with a family?