This lady works with my husband that’s where they meet. I found out on 4th of July that they have been talking very flirty like saying how much they missed each other and couldn’t wait to see each other again. I asked him about the messages and he told me it was innocent flirting that it was nothing. I told him to stop because I don’t approve of this”innocent flirting” and of course he said he would. || Days later I still had this feeling that something was not right. So I looked through his email and found heart breaking pictures, they both sent each other naked pictures of themselves and more messages about how she she wants to be his drug and how she was scared to text him because she was afraid of getting caught. Just a big mess. My heart sank we have been married for 4 years and have a 2 year old. This lady her self is married and according to my husband was having problems in her marriage too. They both had no right to agree to have an affair just because married life wasn’t going so well. || I made the mistake of talking to her over the phone because she keep begging me to not show her husband her trashy pictures that she sent my husband. She was apologetic but sorry doesn’t fix the damage. But honestly I just think she was sorry that she got caught and if she could she would do it again. They both told me that this affair only lasted two weeks and that there was never any sex involved. I did my own investigation with what little information I got with phone records and emails it matched with a two week period but as for the no sex involved I’m not convicted either way I can positively say that if I hadn’t found out and confronted him when I did -sex would of been inevitable. || Anyways, no marriage is perfect and we all go through temptation and trials but when these troubles come up we can’t ignore the consequences of our actions when so much is at stake. I understand that marriage is a lot of work that both parties have to put into continually but whether I chose to stay with this man or not, I have learned that I am strong enough to forgive the both of them for myself in order to move on and that my value as a person is not based on what they did.