I believe it takes two people to cheat. I blame my soon to be ex-husband just as much. However, there is no denying that any person who sleeps with a married person is a Homewrecker!!!!! I had been married for 5 years. We already had two children and one on the way. He made me quit my job to stay home and take care of the kids because the cost of daycare is outrageous. || I was in an abusive marriage but didn’t know it at the time. It was mental, verbal, and financial abuse. Soon after he made me quit working he took over all finances, and I wasn’t allowed to get the mail. He canceled our house phone so I wouldn’t receive phone calls. He had me programed to make sure the house was perfect and so were the kids and dinner was on the table every night at the same time. I was 8 months pregnant and had been home now two years with the kids. He finally came to me and said we lost our house. The shock and stress of learning of this, and not fully understanding how this could happen pushed me into labor. My youngest child was born 5 weeks early. I was also rushed into surgery because I was hemorrhaging. He never stayed with me after I gave birth to any of the kids. Having a child in the NICU was no different. || I now believe this was the beginning of the end. 3 Months later we moved into a house that we were renting. He got a second job bouncing at a local bar. Bar closes at 2am, maybe an hour to clean then he should be home. NO, he wouldn’t get home until 6am or later. He is a very good talker, and I believed it hook line and sinker. Almost a year later a realtor came to the house and asked if a Friday night would be a good time to “show” the house. I must have looked like a complete idiot….I said what do you mean? My then husband took over the conversation and finally after the man left he told me that the owners decided to put the house up for sale. I was devastated, so were my kids. We had made such good friends there. I didn’t find out until a year later that he was 6 months behind in rent and basically we were kicked out. At the time I believed everything he told me. We had nowhere else to go, so thankfully family took us in. That’s a big deal taking in a family of 5. Two weeks in he started a fight with my family and walked out on all of us. Now that I have had a couple years to process everything and think things through and really scrutinize everything I realize that he may have been cheating before my youngest was born, or definitely when we were in the rented house. I finally came to my senses and after not receiving any kind of financial support from him for over a year I took him to court for child support, alimony, and custody. || It was in 2012 that I found out who the whore is. We are still technically married, and up until 2012 I was fighting for my marriage and still having sex with my husband. All the while he was sleeping with his whore!!!! Anyone who sleeps with a married man with 3 children is nothing but a WHORE!!!!! I sent her an email when I figured out who it was. No I do not know her, and I don’t want to know her, but I had to let her know what I think of her. I have to live with the fact that when he gets visitation with MY children (1 day a week and no overnights) his whore is there too. I have to live with knowing that she is with my kids!!! My kids are young but I will not lie to them. I do tell them that she is the person who ruined their family. When they get much older I will tell them the whole story and how she is nothing but a HOMEWRECKING WHORE!!!!! || I had to get tested of course since we were having sex as he was sleeping with the whore. Thanks to her dirty ass I am now carrying the virus that causes cervical cancer!!!! I hope karma works her magic on the both of them and that they rot in hell. Not for just what they did to me, but for what they did to my children as well!!!!! The man in the pic with the whore is not my husband. Probably some other poor schmuck!!!! She looks like something from the “Jersey Shore” that craptastic tv show, and a drag queen!!!!!