Me and my husband were having problems and I dont have any family in this state so I took the kids and left the state to my nearest family which unfourtantly was 1000 miles away. I gave my husband every opportunity to come talk it out before I left, I dont think he really thought id leave. I left for three months. He was fully aware were I was, when I was coming back and the status of the kids. We talked about how things would be different when I got back and we really needed to work on our marriage. Well I came back excatly when I said I would. Three weeks went by and everything was great. He was acting weird but I figured hes going to need time to stop being upset with me for up and leaving with kids. Well one night after a family outing he asks me if im happy as we are driving back home. || I said yeah he said no…..blah blah blah. He said he wanted a divorce never saw it coming. I asked if he cheated on me he said no he was just hurt and would not be able to get over it. I asked the next three days are u sure you didn’tcheat dont let me find out you need to tell me so on and so on. He swears he didnt cheat he just didnt love me anymore. I get a phone call and I said I think he cheated ( never worrying about this before, never crossed my mind). My friend said yeah I just found out he did and with more than one. One girl was a friend of ours. I went to here door she fuy admitted it and then confirmed katie in the picture and a more serious on going thing. I didnt know this girl but new of her and she’s friends if friends. I did not know were she stayed so I could not confront her. I confronted him he still denied it for three hours. Wel after this is said I find out she had birthday party and my husband gave his number to her on a white erase board birthday card later posted on Facebook. I find out they are still sleeping together and find out she lives down the street. We still live together due to im unable to afford to move. He took her to a wedding, helped her”move” on valentines day and goes fishing with her and who knows what else. Me and my husband officially divorced start talking aHow we want to make things work. Well then found text messages from all the way back to the beginning of the relationship. She was fully aware we were married had two kids and lived together. We had a mutal friend who had a baby shower and of course my husband now ex husband tells me im not invited because katie wil be there. I checked with the mother to be and that was not the story at all. I was invited just as much as my exhusband and katie was. I showed up looking my best and we all were there. Kept my mouth shut of course not going to ruin my friends baby shower. Shes playing with my kid and sexting him while standing right in front of me. We are now still trying to make things work and he swears nothing is going on but believe me I have my guard up. And me and here will have our time obe of these days and I cant wait.