It all started when I had a tumor found in my uterus. I had to have a hysterectomy. The first surgery was botched and my man and I started having issues and I felt sick all the time. I lost 68 lbs and couldn’t be sexual. I started noticing he was going outside to talk on his phone and he stopped holding me at night. Then he started telling me about the girl he was friends with in high school . We invited her to our home. This homewrecking whore came into my home and pretended to be my friend. She played head games and tried to convince me that she was a good person who was having a hard time because her husband was doing her wrong. Then she came right out and told me she was going to ruin my life and take what was mine and she did for 2 years. || Every time I turned around she was putting herself in my life. My man told her he loved me and wanted to make our relationship work but every down day we had there she was trying to screw us up. So I left and gave him to her and she jumped right into my life. They were sleeping together and hanging out every chance she had. My guy chased me down and begged me to come back and after 6 months I did. Everything was good till she came back around playing her sad story again. She says she is in love with her childhood sweetheart but I found a text on my mans phone where she said she would leave her true love for my man if he said he would give me up. Now what kind of stupid women would be dumped on 4 times in 2 years and still want to try and break us up? I can’t stand her. She has thrown herself at him so many times and if we are having problems he falls for her stuff. They have slept together in our bed and that’s where I have issues. He now is telling me they are just friends but that is crap. If I catch her out in public I am going to whip her. || I don’t know what is going to happen between me and my man. I love him but I will not deal with her any more. The funny thing is he tells me everything, I mean everything about their relationship. He told me about her body and how sexually she did nothing for him. He says that he had to think of me when they were together so he could perform. So why did this happen? It has ruined my life. I can no longer trust him. I have the urge to go through his phone daily. And every time he leaves the house I get sick to my stomach with worry because I know they are talking. I know this is not the first marriage she has tried to break up and I know he loves me. I just don’t trust that he won’t feel sorry for her pitiful crap and cause me more pain. I don’t know if we are fixable or not. This has changed everything about us and our children have been effected negatively by all of this. And the fact that he won’t give her up makes me sick. I just can’t give up on him yet but I will destroy her like she did us.