My now ex-boyfriend and I had been together for 12 years. We’ve had our ups and downs and I made some bad mistakes toward the beginning of our relationship. We then went on to have a daughter, and almost 6 years later had another. I thought things would turn around, then I found out while pregnant with my second child that he was addicted to opiates. I tried for over a year to convince him to get off of them, he lied and lied saying he was clean when he really wasn’t. || Anyway, he cheated several times after we had our baby, blamed the drugs. He was arrested in March of 2015 for stealing upwards of 3400 dollars from his employer and they had loss prevention come in and they cleaned out his locker. He went to jail and was charged with theft by deception and aggravated possession of drugs. He called home that night. I answered and I was mad but had already decided to stick beside him and learn to forgive as I thought he had done for me when I made mistakes. That was his rock bottom. He got out on O.R, and he came home. Things were going ok, except one of the girls he cheated with messaged me and told me they were still cheating together, even on the day of his arrest. But seeing as we had been together for 12 years and had two beautiful daughters, I saw something to save. He got a job at a factory finally, was there two weeks and got fired because they learned what happened. That’s where Jeananna mcWade comes in. || As far as I can tell he started talking to her the day he was 30 days clean. Which I had bought him an engraved cross necklace to celebrate that day. Within a week he no longer wanted to be with me, I cried and begged like a desperate person trying to save her family but his mind wouldn’t budge. Maybe she doesn’t know though that I gave him a blow job as a stress reliever even after and he then turned around and said he would give it a week’s thought about us. He then lied and said he had to help someone move furniture, a pastor actually, but really he went to see her. Then next night he talked to her through text all day, and that night when I came to lay next to him. He was turned on for some reason already, I was half asleep and he wanted to do stuff. We did all but actually have sex, and it was better than it normally isl. But I assumed she turned him on in some way before he began touching me. The next day I said something about it and he told me not to mention it ever again. Yea he’s a piece of work. The next day he lied to me and said he was going to his dad’s, I knew he wasn’t. After two hours I called his dad to see if he was there and he said he wasn’t and that he hadn’t seen him. I then called the pastor and he said he never helped him move furniture. Nick got mad at the pastor for telling him he was misguided and he upset his whole family by doing this after I put up with so much shit to save my family. Then he wanted to coexist in the house. I agreed at first but couldn’t stand seeing him leave knowing where he was going. || Now I am at my friends house with my two kids because we had so much debt that I can’t afford to just go get my own place at the moment. Anyway, first he said they were just friends and then she was his sponsor because she had been through the drug treatment too. Still lied about where he was going all the time. Said he was going to narcotics anonymous but was at her place, told me she has a boyfriend which she doesn’t. And so it goes on. We agreed he would have the kids on the weekends and I would keep them through the week. He wanted more than that but after he lied again I changed the terms. I told him if he was going to start a real relationship with this woman I would have to meet her before she was around my kids. He agreed to this. Just as I would do if I were to meet someone that I wanted to be serious with. When I left I told him she was not to be around our kids, that his weekends with the kids were his and the kids only. By the way we never married and I am the custodial parent and have the right to refuse visitation and choose who to allow around my children until he takes it to court. He told me she had nothing to do with his decision he hadn’t done anything with her, they were just friends blah blah blah. But his very first weekend with the kids, and the weekend I moved out officially, he takes the kids to the park before he takes our oldest to stay the night with her Grammy. Tonight driving home, knowing her dad, I ask my oldest about the park. I asked her if daddy told her not to tell me something, at first she said no, and I knew she was lying. So I told her we don’t keep secrets and she told me that daddy was talking to a girl a lot and that he kissed her several times, so even after agreeing to the rule, he lied repay sky saying she wasn’t there with him but my daughter talked to her. She was nice though, she says, but not the point. I asked to one, meet her first if it became serious, and two for her not to be around my kids at all until that point. But day freaking one he tells my daughter to lie to me and not tell me he brought the girl around. And kissed her in front of my daughters, which she said she did not like to see. || This girl must have a magic vagina because she has popped out three kids and been through two marriages and stole the daddy of a 7 year old and 1 year old and ended a 12 year relationship. Their both homewrecker’s. He’s a loser and she’s a slut. He will see her kids more than his own. Oh well I guess, mommy’s got this. My kids are tore up about this and then he had the freaking nerve to share his time and affection with some tramp right in front of them after he just turned their world upside down? He’s a grade a piece of shit, and she is too as far as I am concerned. || Yea I’m crazy, I will admit it, and our relationship was downright terrible at times, but he’s no angel, and has left his marks and emotional scars on me too. She can have him because he is a waste of skin. 30 years old, going bald, dentures, the works. But I loved him no matter what. Well no matter what was a joke. By the way layes unless he is on pills he can only last about 30 seconds, maybe a minute in bed. But maybe that doesn’t matter to her, didn’t to me either but he wasn’t very good at other stuff either. My kids and I are better off without him, and he goes to court on May 18th, and is going for intervention in lieu of conviction which means because his crime was committed due to his drug addiction, he may end up without charges. But his sentence for each is up to 12 months in jail for each crime. For my girls I want the first one for him, for me I want the second. || Momma’s gonna be happy with just her and the kids, hope the new girl can replace that for him. Guess we will be going to court after all. By the way his name is Nick Morris, hers is Jeananna McWade! Good luck to both of you! Two pics of her, and one of him and I for our anniversary years ago. Or you can find him in the bellefontaine examiner.