At first she portrays a caring and sincere heart mixed with a morally superior view of herself with self-respect and values. These include loyalty to friends, integrity, an understanding and appreciation for the sanctity of family and relationships alike. This is just a masquerade. Once her facade crumbles and you will see her true malevolent self. In all honesty, she is a bedbug hiding in the cracks of your relationship and sucks the life blood out of it. Her tactics are A-typical of any “mate poacher,” using the “just a friend” excuse as she infiltrates and rapidly deploys her eggs of deceit and hate until your man’s head is completely filled with lies. Shine a light on her lies, she will run, hide an blend into the walls. Just like a nasty little bedbug. She has no moral compass, lacks empathy or a sense of responsibility for what she has done to you and your family. Like a true meth addict… You are the villain and she is the victim. She only cares about what is good for her. She is a mother and the men she hunts take priority over her own children.