I found out my husband has been cheating on me with someone who is confused with herself. One minute she’s gay the next minute she’s straight. We both happen to know her and she’s on both of our facebook pages. She has been posting a lot of subliminal messages on her page and at first I didn’t think anything of it. . . until January. My husband kept saying how he needed a new phone that his phone kept messing up. So he finally got a new phone. He got a new phone through a friend. His friend that is staying in Florida.Then he started saying that his friend who is staying in Florida wants him to come visit him for a few days, that he’s going to buy his ticket for him and he wants him to go into business with him so he should see how it is in Florida. But the whole time he’s telling me this he keeps saying he, to make me think it’s a male friend.This girl lives in Fort Lauderdale now and has been for years. They have been calling and texting each other for months and also video chatting. My husband and I have 5 kids and I refuse to let this go unnoticed. I’ll admit we have been having some problems and I’ll also admit that I’m not perfect. He feels I haven’t been holding up to my wifely duties and I admitted to him that he’s right some things that I used to do I haven’t been doing. I will change and he agreed that he would change as well because there has been some things that he has been doing that I don’t agree with. We agreed that we would work on our marriage to make things good again, how they used to be and then I found out he has been cheating on me with this person who doesn’t know whether she wants to be gay or straight and dresses very boyish. He actually went to Florida and after he got there is when I found out it was her. I found the email she sent him with the conformation of the flight and with her name and address on it. So I called him and we got into a big argument with him saying that it’s not what I think, that I’m bugging out and there’s nothing going on but I’m finding all these things showing proof that there is something going on between them. Plus there were certain things that I said to him about how he used to call her a hoe and he said he never said that and I knew she was sitting right there listening to our whole conversation. I told him how we both agreed to work on our marriage and he said he never said that.As I’m writing this he is in Florida right now. He said that when he comes back he is going to get his stuff and leave. I said well if nothing is going on then why do you want to leave and his response was that he doesn’t want to keep going through the problem of me accusing him of cheating. If nothing is going on then why not try to fix your marriage? I don’t know what’s going to happen when he gets back but if he wants to leave then bye. I can take care of my kids myself. It’s crazy to me how a person can sit in your face and just lie about what is going on. She was in NY in December because she still has family here so I won’t be surprised if they saw each other and were together because she has a friend who lives in the building next to mine. Another thing is that supposedly she was married to a woman and was heart broken because her spouse cheated on her in her own home but now you have my husband cheating on me with you? Why would you do to someone else what was done to you that broke your heart? She has no kids so she wouldn’t know how breaking up a home with kids in it would feel. My kids are used to having both parents in their home so once they find out they are going to be heart broken. But she doesn’t care because she has no kids and as long as she is with him she has no care in the world as to how hurt my kids are going to be. || I have even tried calling her phone to confront her about what’s going on and she wouldn’t answer. You’re bold enough to mess with my husband but not bold enough to answer your phone when I try to confront you? Well the same way she got him is the same way she’s going to lose him.