I was engaged for five years to my fiance. We had our wedding date that we set together. This Indian girl just moved from East India into an apartment next door to my fiance’s childhood best male friend. Somehow they my fiance and her started being friends. We were in long distance engagement in different states attending college and working. I went to visit him and Hema was having a party at her apartment. She was very polite to me, but she hung out mostly with my fiance laughing and talking. She was alone in a new country and I was not jealous so I let it slide. An hour later everyone decided to go to club in NYC. Hema sat next to me and acted like we had been friends for years when I had just met her. That is until I showed her my engagement ring and told her our wedding date was in a few months. Hema’s face dark face turned pale. She took big drink alcohol and immediately got up, walked over to my fiance, sat on his lap, asked if she mind if she shared seat with him, then she started kissing him right in front of me. His other friends sitting next to me said my fiance told them he and I were broken up and only friends the last few months, not engaged… || My fiance paid for my flight to be with him for that entire week and was affectionate all that evening with me to that point. I just had miscarriage with his baby, my dad had stage four cancer with weeks to live, then this happened. I had to stay all week at his house. He would say he was going to work but he would go to Hema’s apartment at night and be sexual with me the next each day. I stayed with him and we both continued planning wedding. I didn’t know Hema and Steve were talking ballroom dance lessons together for the wedding they had with each other behind my back while Stephen and I were still engaged. Of course, Hema never new I was staying at his parents house where he lived at the time and I thought he had stopped seeing her as he had me believe when I was visiting him. They have been married 16 years and have two pre-teen age children. I told her I didn’t get to carry my child with him to term because of the stress from her. I had to pawn my engagement ring and other marriage items he and I bought together for 1/4 the original cost. I complain today, because my ex and I have mutual friends we share. One friend told me Hema was posting nasty, horrible things about me on Facebook 2007, 2008, 2009, 2010, and 2015. I saw it for myself and she has no right to call me fat, lazy, uneducated, clown-alien face, crappy mother, those are the nicer things she said. She is married to my ex. I have my own husband and son. Then I noticed she is a RN Nurse who says she HATES being nurse taking care of patients, but does it to pay for her yearly Bahamas cruises, huge lake-house, Mercedes, and keep kids in private school. She also tells her brother and friends she is stuck with her police Lieutenant hubby until he retires in a few years or when kids graduate. She continues to find ways to hurt me on social media. She looks at my Facebook page and degrades my photos. She continues to give ultimatums to our mutual friends to cut friendships with me. I am deeply hurt for last 16 years. She keeps turning that invisible knife around inside me. She is the ultimate home wrecker!!!! I wish same would happen to her and she lose everything, family, friends, job, house, kids, all material things, just like she did to me. She is nice to your face but watch out. Watch out!!!! What Hema wants she always gets and nobody stands in her way!!!!! This is her most recent pic with my ex fiance taken Feb. 2015.