Meet Heather. Heather is a manipulative wh**e. Heather decided to stroke the ego of a cheating bastard because she thinks he’s her (and her kid’s) golden ticket. Rather than dissuade cheating bastard from griping about his marriage to her, she encouraged him to share because he’s “such a great guy”. Instead of coming to the wife and sharing things said to her, or even simply telling cheating bastard that he has a wife he needs to deal with directly and that she’s not the audience for all that, she decided it’d be more fun to seduce him. Well… she did the wife a favor by exposing him as a cheating simpleton and simultaneously taking him off her hands. If you see her, please let her know the wife wasn’t responsible for cheating bastard’s debt (that 100k was his from before him and the wife ever got married), that the car was hers (not his) and good luck competing with video games and ammo loading (or whatever hobby is the flavor of the month) for his affections. He might be “so good to the kids” but rest assured you will NEVER be a priority in his life – his priority is him and what he wants.