It all started with dinner at Carraba’s. My wonderful husband and I were waiting at the bar, and we struck up a conversation with a woman who seemed nice enough. We chatted for a while and discovered that she made a living selling Star Wars and other science fiction movie merchandise. My husband is a bona fide Star Wars freak, so they spent the rest of the evening talking about Jawas and crap while I nursed glass after glass of white zinfandel. Before we left, my husband got her business card because he said he wanted to see about selling some of his figurines. I never heard anything about it until this past summer.Apparently they caught back up with each other AT THE SAME CARRABA’S and spent several evenings getting to know each other until they started an affair. As far as I know, it’s been going on for over 2 years, and I would never even have discovered it then except that one day I was on a discussion board I frequent, and someone mentioned having sex with a guy while he was wearing a storm trooper helmet. I knew my husband had always tried to talk me into it, but that just seemed weird. I did some research and started following this person around on the site until I discovered it was her. I had a friend help me get into my husband’s email account, and there were hundreds of exchanges. Everything from nasty fantasies about looking at their genitals with magnifying glasses to wearing strange costumes. Apparently he has some crazy sex fantasies I never knew about. What made it worse is that he also talked about me. A lot. He shared intimate details of my personal life, things I can’t even mention here. Suffice to say, she knows I’m afraid of mannequins and exactly why that is. It freaks me out.Fast forward to this Christmas. Amazon brings a box, and as I’m taking it in, my husband rushes to the door from his car and yells that it’s his box, please don’t open it. I tell him if we can’t open the box right here and now, it’s over between us. He opened the box, and there were all kinds of crazy toys. Things a man can put his penis into and things I can only hope he was planning to use on her. It was horrifying, and to make matters worse, it ruined Christmas.We are together still, trying to find a way to rebuild our relationship. I forced him to share all the details of his affair on the discussion board that I originally discovered the affair on. I also told him to stop talking to her, but I feel like they still see each other. || I am attaching one picture of the WHORE and another picture of her in what I guess was an attempt to be cute or sexy in their little dress-up games. It’s pathetic, and she has RUINED my favorite Christmas movie for me. Please share this so the women in the Austin area can know to keep their eyes out.