I’ve always called him boogie, he was my best friend for over almost twenty years. We knew everything about each other and have been through some tough shit. About eight years ago I met my now wife, we will call her Donna. At first we started show and very casual…one day we made it official to skip the boring stuff, ended up with three amazing kids, a strong but somewhat rocky relationship. In my relationship I was not perfect, at points of you ask Donna now it may seem I tortured her…I have my mistakes as Donna has hers we are working out…all throughout this boogie was there he seen what we built….in a matter of five years we made a good life for ourselves and our children….he was my best friend…at times Donna and boogie would hate each other and tolerate….An incident happened where we separated for a year or so….when we reestablished a relationship Donna and boogie were bffs….at the time Donna and I were having difficulty…..I pushed she pushed…and she cheated…. || Before I go further, I told Donna in the past I cheated….she was faithful the whole seven years even after I lied to hurt her she stayed and tolerated my mental abuse and sometimes physical….when we got together she was seventeen I was 26…she was young and naive and beautiful…I was lonely we clicked…I helped her overcome drugs and drinking….she was bad and unloved….she saved me from a life of running the streets…we were each other’s salvation…. || Anyways they had a fling a few times….it ended…on Donnas terms…she showed me all the proof…. her guilt ate her alive until she finally confessed after ending it…I had no idea…my baby was good to me she loved me even after I treated her like shit…I can’t help feel I pushed her into his arms…. || But if he was any type of friend he wouldn’t have betrayed me….and if he was any friend of my wife’s..he would have helped our situation…talked her out of her thoughts of infidelity…after all isn’t that what friends are for??? Top keep you out of trouble??? To stop a person from making horrible choices in a vulnerable state??? He portrayed himself as a great friend and great man….he isn’t anything but a backstabbing wanna be street running thug….he claims he served in the military…but he is a liar and cannot prove he ever did….just says all his proof is at his mom’s house for her shrine of him…it’s a lie. I. was there once and he claimed she was having it all polished….yea ok || He also likes to grow marijuana in his closet where he lives in grand blanc in a ratty one bedroom apartment his ssi pays for because he has an undescended ball….he claims he gets because he is crazy…lie….his car has usmc plates because it’s in his step dad’s name…we got pulled over one time he cried because they had to call him…he claims he has ptsd…lie he’s paranoid because of how many other men’s wives he’s given what my wife says is the two second game to…. || I just found out from three of our other close friends that Donna isn’t the only one that he preyed on the problems he seen in his friends relationships…..my friends just prefer to keep it quiet as we are modest and are all trying to rebuild our relationships…. || I love Donna heart and soul….we are soulmates….we had a very rough patch which ended up testing how strong we really were….and we are making it out alive learning to live and live better….to communicate and I’m learning to love her and respect her more than ever…I’m realizing I took this sweet girl in trouble….fixed her and broke her all over again…. || Please help get the word out he is habitual liar and manipulator….I lost what I thought was a good man and a good friend….almost lost my life…my wife and kids.