I have been happily married to my high school sweetheart for 11 years. He’s a respected firefighter and EMS worker in our community. || On Mon. May 11th (the worst day of my life) my husband came home from work and confessed to going to two strip clubs (Moulin Rouge Cabaret (Houston) and The Lounge (Houston) during the months of Jan-March. He said he went there once a week with some buddies from work. I felt my blood boil and my hands began to form a fist. I was ready to knock his ass out!!! He then started crying and asked me to hear him out….. He said he met a stripper at the club named”Candy”- I thought to myself…that’s not her government name. He said they exchanged numbers on the second visit to the strip club after he went to a back room for a lap dance. They exchanged numbers so she could call him when she walls be at the club. He said that they talked on the phone for hours, text each other throughout the day. He said they had sex twice at the club in a back room. What the fuck??? Sex at a strip club? He said they made arrangements over the phone for her to do something extra while giving him a lap dance. The something extra was…he would take out his penis, put on the condom, she would straddle him in the chair and ride him until he came! It happened twice and he paid her $60.00. I felt like I couldn’t breath listening to him calmly tell me all this shit! I felt like I was not in my body….I could not believe the words coming out of his mouth. Not my husband who is so good to me. He opens my doors, he cooks for me, he helps clean the house, he sends”I love you text” to me, he coaches little league, we are active in our church, he’s a leader at his job. Not my husband. I remember slapping his face and yelling and cussing. I told him to get his shit and get out…he begged me to let him confess everything before I decide what to do. I said there’s more???? I can’t handle anymore right now. || He said that they exchanged”I love you” over the phone and through text. He admitted to falling in love with her. Really? A fucking stripper? He said he met her and her mom at a Mexican restaurant in Pasadena for lunch. He was introduced as her friend. He said that he went to her apartment four times (in the morning when he was supposed to be at work). Omg!!!!!! I felt so damn sick ….like I wanted to just die! He swore that nothing happened at the apartment. He said that every time he went, they only cuddled and watched movies!!!! He said that she was a movie freak! He said that her cousin and brother were there one time he went and that he just stayed in the living room and watched tv. He said that he gave her $50.00 for her rent and $120.00 for a bed that she needed. They exchanged graphic pictures throughout this time as well. I remember punching him and screaming why? Was our marriage that damn bad?? Why didn’t you just leave? || My husband revealed that her real name is Elizabeth Perez or Elizabeth Lima, she’s married to a man that’s in jail (due to get out soon). She strips at Moulin Rouge and The Lounge. She has three young sons who he has met and they were at home on one of his visits. Elizabeth introduced him as a friend to her boys. What the hell??? He said that her mom has to drive her around because she doesn’t have a license due to DUI charges. He also said that her husband doesn’t know she strips, he thinks she works at PaPa Johns? He said that if I go back and look at the phone records, I will see that they talked for two hours one day. He said she called crying about getting so drunk on a party bus on her birthday. She couldn’t remember who she had sex with…. I asked him she did he get a therapist license? He can’t counsel anyone…he’s fucked up too!!!! || He broke up with her because he realized that he loved me and wanted our marriage to work. Really? Were you thinking about that when you fucked that bitch? He also said that she was seeing a Doctor and Lawyer and blew him off for an entire weekend. That pissed him off!!! || I found that bitch on Facebook and she cussed me out and told me that if I was handling things at home, my man would not have been coming to her. She said that she has that good stuff that kept him coming back for more. || I’m exposing this money hungry bitch because she needs to be stopped and exposed for what she really is….a whore. You are a married woman with three kids…have some fucking class about yourself and confess to your husband. Keep your damn legs closed….and fuck your own husband! || Needless to say, I put my husband out of our home, he moved in with his mom and that’s where he will remain. I can’t get these images out of my head and I don’t think I will Ever forgive him. I would have Never imagined I would going through this but I’m going to be okay. My Pastor and his wife are helping me work through this….they even suggested that we go to counseling to see if restoration is an option. They said I have to forgive because God forgives us. How can I forgive something that I don’t understand? How do I forgive when the pain is so deep? I don’t know….right now I’m hurt, pissed, in shock, and just numb. I feel like I don’t know the man I married. I also feel like I deserve to be with someone who doesn’t cheat. He ruined our marriage. He’s just as guilty or even more so than her. || How can I go on? I made an appointment with my doctor to be checked for an std. I just can’t believe all of this shit that’s going on. My husband said porn led him to the strip clubs. He is attending a sex addiction counseling class offered at his moms church. Idk how to even respond to any if this. || Does every man cheat? I have never cheated on my husband….I have more class and integrity about myself. I am at peace with the fact that my future may not include my husband. || I’ve never been to a strip club…is sex legal? Wouldn’t that be prostitution? I’m contacting the managers at both clubs! || Elizabeth Perez/ Elizabeth Lima is a whore!!!!!!!