My husband and I have been married 14yrs. We have been together 16. We met in job corps in Mississippi. We lived a decent middle class life. This hurts so much to speak about I don’t know where to start. I found out about the affair awhile back. Of course he said he would end it and I come to find out that he hasn’t. He tells me nothing is the matter and we are good. Nothing is wrong. But then it comes out that they are still seeing each other. || She told me that my husband would never leave her. Who the hell do you think you are? She is about 15yrs older than us. And feels she can by my husband’s affection. Apparently to some degree she can.