When this all started my husband and I had been married for 9 yrs. Im not exactly sure when the affair started I just know it started during the 1st couple of months of 2012. I actually found out about this affair on our 10th Anniversary by looking at phone records ect…I didn’t confront him right away, I wanted to do it when the time was perfect. Our anniversary is May 4th so it had been going on a while at this point. We went to dinner that night and on our way I told him that I had bought him a card but that I’d left it at home. His response to this was”that’s ok I didn’t get you anything anyway” I said you didn’t even get me a card and he replied”no Jennifer wtf is it gonna say”…that hurt. I kept it together like everything was ok during one of the most miserable nights of my life still not saying anything about what I had found out. Granted I had noticed prior to these findings that he was a little distant and when I confronted him he said that he was unhappy and had been for a while. There was no one else but he just needed to focus on work…lol work. Did I mention this woman worked with him? So yeah”work”, anyway 2 days after our anniversary on Sunday he tells me”I want out, I want a divorce”. Ok well I knew that was coming but he didn’t mention her. He went on and on about him being unhappy and that he would find me and our 3 kids another place to live…yep he cheats but me and the kids have to go. Oh and before I go too far during the time he was sneaking around behind my back I was also taking care of my sister in laws kids a 2 & 3 yr old. Im home with 5 kids while he’s, well you get the idea. || So im sitting there listening to all this and when he’s finished im like ok now its my turn. 1st of all who’s Daisy? He’s all huh what are you talking about? I said I already know I just want to hear it from you. He denied it of course so I said ok I’ll call her and get some answers or maybe her husband cause I’ve got his number too…long story short he finally told me the truth. Me and our kids stayed in our house and I told him to get out ! Their affair lasted for a year and a half or so. He was horrible to me. Treated me like dirt on the bottom of his feet like a piece of trash he picked up and threw away. He used me when I was vulnerable. This woman took my husband and my kids dad away knowingly and willingly. Her and her husband divorced not long after my husband left. She did everything she could to hurt me by texting, lying, deceiving, calling him. We had tried to work things out a few times but I always caught him in a lie. One morning I went to his house to wake him up after calling with no answer and there she was in bed with him. The night before he was here saying I love YOU Jennifer…yep some love. || Eventually going on 2 years we finally got back together. It is hard to trust him still to this day but I’m trying. As for her I hear she’s engaged to be married. I wish her good luck and good luck to whoever he is, I’m sure he’ll need it!