I have known this girl going on 9 yrs, we lost touch in 2012. In September of 2016 i recieved a message and friend request on facebook from her and i was very hesitant on accepting the request or even talk to her, but i went against my better judgement and started remembering the glory days when we were real close. So i talked to her a bit and then invited her to my house. I introduced her to my fiancée and opened up to her that him and i were having some issues. She saw first hand his off the burst of anger towards me and situations and acted shocked by how he acted. Even on one day during an on going fight where i was sleeping in the other bedroom she announced her loyalty to me. She talked a great game and made me think i could trust her and had no worries. One night my fiancée and i picked her up and to her on a bike ride. She had to ride on his bike (which i have allowed all my female friends to do) cause im new to riding and don’t need to crag with someone on the back of my bike bring inexperienced. Everything seemed fine, mind you i kept an eye on them the whole time and didn’t see anything i should be worried about. Couple days later i noticed that they had became facebook friends and i was a little worried but kept close eye on everything, but when my fiancée was telling about stuff crystal and him had discussed and i didnt see the messages on Facebook, i then questioned her on having his number and she didn’t responded and so i grabbed his phone and found the messages and i snapped. My fiancée and i argued and he packed a bag and left. I called hee out and told her to come over so we can talk, she said it wasnt like that and she even told him her loyalty was with me but she didnt know how to tell me about what was being said. Well go figure she never showed up and when he came home the next day i found out they had been around each other. I asked him to stop talking to her and he said he would but didn’t. Then i found out he was sneaking over there on nights he picked a fight with me and took off on his bike to give her rides and i got pissed. I confronted him and her again and they said nothing is going on but i waited and stupid me have him the benefit of the doubt. When i got home that night and he was asleep i grabbed his phone and seen the most disgusting messages ever. I freaked out on my fiancée and told him to leave, he didn’t and i caught more messages between them. Im so done weer had just bought a house and are supposed to move in a couple days and im not going with im staying in my house and he can have his new whore move in. On top of all this she lives with her boy friends mom and is also sleeping with her x who she claims is the love of her life. She is the biggest slut, whore, poop sac chasing bitch on the south side of des moines.