My boyfriend and I had been together for 3 ½ years before this happened. We had minor bumps in the relationship like most couples do but nothing as serious as this. We had lived together for 2 years while we were going to school. During that time my || grandmother needed help and my parents moved so I was going back and forth between staying with him and my grandmother. A few days before his birthday (10/31) I left to go take care of grandma. I was gone for a couple of days and tried calling and texting but he ignored me completely. I then found out he moved. I had no idea where because he was not talking to me. On (11/9) I called him to tell him that I hadn’t been feeling well and thought I may be pregnant. He answered and said”it’s the weekend I can’t talk” then hung up. || It wasn’t until December that I found out he had been cheating. I found out two days after officially finding out I was pregnant. Since then it’s been hell. This girl has slandered him (rightfully) and me on social networks and has gone as far as talking badly about my son that I was still pregnant with at the time. She randomly texts and calls him and then harasses me. She has been a constant pain in my ass. She is childish as hell and has been caught making up stories. She claimed to be pregnant also and even went as far as trying to get money from my bf to get an abortion, but posted pics the same day of her drinking. She also throws it in my face that they had sex but then tells her friends she’s been”without sex for 32 months”. She promised me that I would be a single mother like her. || I was not able to really enjoy my pregnancy with my first child because of her constant harassment and antagonizing. I have begun trying to move forward with my boyfriend for our son’s sake, but this girl will be a constant virus in our relationship.