We Have been married for 7 years and together for 10 years. We have no children together but I thought we were happy. My husband went to a concert one night while I was at work. He went to see a band called Stem Ivory, his bassist for his band was also in Stem Ivory so he wanted to go check them out. We’ll, they have a saxophonist named Carli Hibben in that band and I guess after the show they started talking. They friended each other on Facebook and she would like every one of his posts within seconds of him posting it. I questioned him and he would say,”I don’t know, we are just friends, that’s weird.” I left it at that. || When I found out that they were having an affair, they had only been together 3 times in a total of 2 weeks. My husband had a video shoot in Arizona and she was invited to go and I wasn’t even asked. I found out because someone tagged her in a photo while they were there. I immediately texted my husband and asked about her. He said it was a last minute thing and we had to borrow her truck to pull the trailer so she had to go. They were keeping it a secret from everyone, including all the people in his band as well as hers. Although the bassists suspected something and asked my husband the week before the trip to Arizona, everything was denied and my husband’s bassist warned him to stop if there was anything going on. I guess while they were in Arizona, they snuck off to her hotel room and had sex one last time because he came home Saturday night and I got home from work Sunday morning and had this nagging urge to check his phone. Although he hid their conversions well, it wasn’t good enough because I found them. I read them all for the past 2 weeks and immediately woke him up, called him out and we talked for 7 hours after my 12 hour night shift. I found out that Carli was also married, to a disabled vet. He provided everything for her and she didn’t have to work but I guess that wasn’t good enough. She was messaging my husband about wearing sexy lingerie for him while her husband was at work and how she loved kissing him. They don’t have kids either. || She is now living with her mom because her husband left her.