Letter to the homewrecker:You had no right to insert yourself into my marriage. You had no right to sleep with my husband and I don’t know what you thought you were going to gain by doing so.Yes, this is his fault. It’s also yours. I really don’t give a damn who the pursuer was, the fact is, YOU knew that he was married and that makes you just as responsible as he is. You can try to deflect the blame all you want, but I hold you equally responsible.What kind of woman knowingly sleeps with a married man KNOWING that there is no chance for a future?? Why would you do that to anyone, but most of all yourself? I don’t get it. You must have a very low view of yourself if you were willing to take another woman’s scraps.You preyed on his vulnerabilities and had hoped that he would leave his family for you, even when you knew there was no chance of him ever leaving. I think that you tried your best to manipulate him and use his vulnerabilities to continue the affair. My God, even when he told you it was over, you still tried to push your feelings about the matter, on him. Sorry, but my husband had more important things to think about than what was on your mind. See how important you were to him? You weren’t.I think it’s horribly unfair that I did nothing wrong yet I am the one suffering the most. I see the grief and remorse in my husband’s eyes and I know that if he could go back and change things, he would. He wishes that he never would have met you, and thankfully, he’s realized that his feelings for you were nothing but pure fantasy. An escape from the daily stresses of life. They weren’t real. You could have been ANYBODY…it was never about YOU. You just happened to be there.The thing is, it wasn’t about me or our marriage, either. It was about how he felt about himself. You were nothing but an ego boost. Yes, maybe you had your little fling with him for a short time, but at the end of the day, he chose his wife. All you were was a huge mistake that he regretted instantly. So, what does that leave you with? Nothing. You’re left with absolutely nothing, so I ask you, was it worth it? Was causing another woman to suffer this way worth what you got in the end?Someday you will know this devastating agony that I felt…someday some tramp will slither her way into your relationship and when you’re laying on the floor in a crumpled heap of devastation barely able to breathe because of the horrible grief and pain, you’ll think of me. Have fun with that. || My marriage is going to be fine…as a matter of fact, my husband and I will be stronger than before. We already are. He loves ME and is doing everything in his power to right his wrongs….you? You get nothing. He wants nothing to do with you and regrets the day he ever first spoke with you.