I’m sure you all think Pate Cardwell is perfect. Well, you have been mistaken. He left his wife and his children in November to chase a 19 year old girl. He has since continued to cheat and lie, while still running back and forth from his wife to other various women. He has continued to have a sexual relationship with his wife and taking advantage of her emotions and strong feelings to reconcile. In February, his wife became pregnant. He was furious and threatened her to end the pregnancy for more than 2 weeks. Fortunately, but unfortunately, she miscarried at almost 8 weeks. After she lost the child she had wanted for more than a year, he stayed at their home with her to help her recover and care for their children while she recovered. He has pulled her back and forth for more than 10 months. When she was just before giving up and telling him she was done, he would began trying to spend time with her and giving her what he knew she longed for most. He has picked her apart. He has purposely done these things to keep her holding on, knowing he had no intention of trying to reconcile. And now he has decided to make it worse. Although he was in bed with his wife less than one month ago, he has begun dating Brett Thomas Cooper behind her back, continuing his lying and destructive patterns. Who knows how long this has really been going on.. No one has an idea because he has done nothing but lie to anyone who would listen. This woman goes to his parents church, where his father is the minister. Surely, his loving parents know nothing of the horrible things he has done to his wife of 6 years. This woman should also be ashamed of herself for her part in this. She has helped this sorry excuse for a man completely destroy his loyal wife who has spent their whole marriage supporting him through everything, including 3 deployments and his building his career after the military. What comes around, goes around.