Everyone please meet Brandi, the girl who to this day sticks in the back of my mind. Brandi and my husband went to tech school together where she sent him nude photos (prior to our relation). My husband told me who she was when she sent me a friend request on FB- we were open like that. I had nothing to hide so I accepted her request. A few months later Brandi moved to the base my husband was stationed at in Virginia. I had just found out I was pregnant not too long before. I had no worries of Brandi so I didn’t think anything of it. I stored her in the non important memories in my mind. My pregnancy was rough, I had horrible mood swings and extreme exhaustion from being on my feet all day at work. When I came home I just wanted to sleep. I felt horrible that my I left my husband feeling abandoned or unwanted. || It isn’t like we didn’t cuddle or spend quality time on the weekends. We had what I thought was a great marriage with a few bumps in the road… it was our first year of being newly weds. Some months passed and my son was born. We were settling into Parenting and schedules so our sex life wasn’t back to the old ways. Brandi reached out to my husband at first in a friendly manor via global (work) chat on base. One day a friend in my husband’s squadron said he was messaging someone on the global chat and left it up… they caught a glimpse of the chat and messaged me at work to inform me. My husband was fishing for attention and Brandi was baiting him to divorce me. I would have rather my husband fuck her and get it over with than to talk down of me behind my back and degrade me as a wife. He said I was “fat” and that I was a bitch etc meanwhile she was grooming him tell her more details about how awful I am. I weighed 150 and stand 5’7 right after the birth of OUR CHILD. I wasn’t the skinny bean pole I use to be but I was FAR from fat. Then in random convo she brings up the nude photos she sent way back (turning the conversation sexual). I found everything I needed on our cell records, his work computer, our home computer. I started to print out her nude photos and plaster them all over base… but I didn’t want to graduate from Maury to Jerry Springer just yet. || I personally messaged Brandi and told her I knew everything. She apologized profusely saying she’ll never talk to my husband again but then was too stupid to realize I was right beside him with his phone when she texted “your wife knows we talk”..: After moving out of our home for a couple of days my husband came crawling back apologizing and promising the world etc etc. I took him back and he’s walked the straight and narrow since. However Brandi, You ruined my thought of happily ever after, you (and my husband) stole my foundation of trust I had Built our little family on and for that FUCK YOU. I May have forgiven my husband, but for YOU, I will always hate and wish the most lonliest of a life for you. I hope when you grow old you eat, sleep and shit alone and when you finally die at an old age that your cold heart burst out of your worthless chest as no one is by your side. You truly have no idea what you have taken from my life… and I can only hope if someone dumb enough does marry you that they are taken away by a home wrecker just as yourself. You are the most horrible person I have ever met.