Where do I even begin. Wendi started seeing Bo Hubbard after 9 years of being together but just barely 6 months of being married. I’m sure it started before anyone knew what was going on…but when it came to light, she’d went out with some friends and Co workers to a club… he happens to be one of her subordinates at work…. she didn’t come home until after I’d went to work.. I called and texted with little to no reaponse. As a police officer I have seen the worst in what can happen . I was obviously worried. When she finally did respond she basically told me she’d cheated. I was devestated at first. After all, I’d helped her raise her 2 girls and we had a 6 yr old together. 10 years of my life I loved her. I wanted to work it out…I could forgive her one time. But as it turned out it wasn’t the first time with him. She moved out within the week. Into his mother’s 1 bedroom apartment. Ive learned since that this is what Bo does.. he meets married women, begins a relationship and drains them financially and moves on…shes already damn near bankrupt… hes been charged with a domestic assault on an ex and is currently in court for that… ive already been told hes beating on her.. she left behind her 15 yr old and our 6 yr old when she moved in with him. On top of my hurt and pain I had to find a way to deal with the girls ‘ hurt and pain. || They were confused why mom left our family to be with another man. She started taking the girls to his house on the weekends..the 15 yr old was already emotionally unstable before this, and it became even worse after.wendi attempted to run my ass over with her car during an exchange of the girls. For which she was arrested and charged. I had to had her (the 15 yr old) admitted to a psych hospital for a few weeks for wanting to kill herself.. that was emotionally draining. But TN DCS decided she needed to work on her relationship with her mother and gave her back to her, even after reading where she had told friends on fb she wanted to kill her mother. after she got custody of the 15 yr old back she stopped seeing the 6 yr old all together.. no calls, no visits…nothing….. Hasn’t seen her in 3 months.. nothing on mothers day. What kind of mother does that?! She’s all over facebook with him and acting like our life never existed. I have to face the pain of a little girl… 6 years old…. that doesn’t understand what happened. She doesn’t even refer to her as mom anymore. She’s just wendi. There’s so much more to this story but I don’t want to make it long and drawn out. I’ll add this however, since moving in with them the 15 yr old is now pregnant by a 21 yr old that WENDI ALLOWED TO BE IN THE HOME HAVING SEX WITH MY DAUGHTER! biological or not she’s my daughter! And there is nothing I can do… the boy was arrested but somewhere along the line wendi and bo should have been also. For allowing it.