Just wanted to share my story….in 2009 I found out my husband had been talking to a co-worker while I had been working 3rd shift. Of course, it was denied that anything else happened but there were rumors that the twit was pregnant. Never heard anything from her until the baby was 4 months old when she tried to get my husband for child support. After investigation we found out that the twit had tried to have the baby adopted out without his knowledge to her step grandmother and then to her stepmother. We also found out that her other three children had been placed in foster care. There were also allegations of abuse to the baby from the stepfather. All of this information was coming from the twits own family members who had never even met us but pleaded that we take this child because of the issues with this family. I made a very quick decision (2 days) to take this child in as my own and to raise her. My husband had helped me raise my 2 sons since they were 1 and 3, and we also shared a daughter together. || At the time I was not sure if we could ever get past this in our marriage but I knew that this child was innocent no matter how she came to be in this world. We filed for full custody and won. This was the best decision that I have ever made despite all the opposition. After we won the custody case, the egg donor would not come to the door on her visitation days and eventually stopped getting her. She saw her five times in five months and has not seen her since June 2011. When my daughter (step) was 9 months old the egg donor became pregnant again but this time by her husband’s stepfather. She had a girl and gave that baby up for adoption. She has not paid any child support, which is only $58 a month for my daughter. And yes, I say my daughter because the little girl does not even know the egg donor. I am the only mother she has had since she was 4 months old. However, despite her failure to show for child support court numerous times, her not seeing or contacting us in over two years about her, she will not sign over her rights so I can adopt her. Now, abandonment can be proven but we will have to fork over the money for a lawyer to have that done and we cannot do that right now but I am saving for it now. || Since then the twit is now 23 and has five children, her three boys are back in foster care for the second time in their lives, my daughter, the daughter she adopted out and now she is pregnant again. Mother of the year! I tell my story because many people think they would never be able to get past something like this in a marriage or they think they would not give a second chance, but I am here to say that you never know what you would do in this situation until it happens. Our marriage is now the best that it ever would have been because we have worked through issues that we didn’t even know we had. We are a happy family and now have a week old new baby girl as an addition to our family. The homewreckers do not always win in these situations. By the way, the homewrecker in this situation is April Michelle Taylor Whitley….just in case you ever meet her!