My husband and I have been together for 13 years, married 5. He is 33 and we have 3 kids ages 12, 8, 3. I have been dealing with “Ambz”, Amber Mae Spencer who just turned 25, for the past 2 ½ years. She is like a case of herpes that just won’t go away! She cheated on her baby dad with my husband and has been at it ever since. When I first found out she had her phone number changed. Things would stop and we would be fine because of course he promised “it would never happen again.” I could go on for days about the run ins I have had with this hoe but will list just a few. She would knowingly sleep with him knowing he’s at home with his wife, she knows what time I go to work and get home so she calls and texts during those times only as his phone would sit out in the open when I was home. She would meet him out while he is driving my vehicle and all the while think that she is doing something. She went and got my husband’s name tattooed on her foot February 2013 which she has since gotten covered up….She has gotten pregnant by my husband TWICE but both times aborted b/c she said “it wouldn’t be right to have a baby by a married man.” And even bragged about this in text to ME. But yet she seems to think it is ok to sleep with him? I have caught this bitch riding around in the front seat of my truck doing coke with my husband, at the shop where he works on vehicles with her kid hanging out, out to eat at fast food restaurants, clubs, etc. One day when I caught her at the shop she ran from me, picked up her then 2/3 year old and held him in front of her yelling “Ive got my son! Ive got my son!” Who uses their kid as a human shield because you think you are about to get your ass beat? She has even dropped him off at the bottom of my driveway when she thought he was there to “get clothes” where my son went down and told her to leave his dad alone that she was ruining our family. The bitch sat there for a while before realizing he wasn’t leaving with her. || When I try talking to her like a woman she apologizes and says it won’t happen again that she knows if we were not arguing or whatever she would not even hear from him and that she understands I take him back because he can “lie his way out of anything”. But again, the minute I turn my back she takes it as an invitation to call and text him. She knew I had had it the end of October and went and got a Protective order against me because she “feared for her life or well being”. The very same day I got the order he was driving her car to MY WORK!! At least she was smart enough to know she should be scared because how many times are you going to call me and tell me he is doing wrong and apologize just to do it again and again? Well he got me a new ring on our 5 year anniversary (Nov. 2014) and low and behold if those 2 aren’t still at it. He has repeatedly told myself and my kids how much he despises her and her kid but yet there they are. As soon as I found out I dropped him off at a Friends on a Friday. She had the balls to call and tell me that he called her and wanted a ride and to talk. She swore up and down she wouldn’t talk to him that we would work it out in a couple days and that she was done with all this. Well guess so spent the weekend together? So Monday she decides to post on FB how they are in a relationship and so in love all while still MARRIED to me. She leaves out the fact that he vandalizes her car when pissed at her and puts his hands on her on a regular basis, has poured drink on her in her own car, etc. She apparently thinks those things means someone loves you. He has so many nicknames for her like bugs bunny and bucky beaver due to her smile and constantly (removed) among other things he also openly refers to her son as a troll which she allows. She knows her son does not like him and he does not like her son which is 4 but yet she continues to run the roads all hours of the night with a married man all while her son is in the backseat of her car. On occasion she will shove him off on a friend or his father. || Due to his fascination with this skank my husband did not even call our son on his birthday (sent a happy bday love u text) and hasn’t seen the kids that he was with daily. This girl has no morals and is all about herself. She has screwed many all over Madison Heights. Look her up on FB, Twitter, Instagram….she loves the attention. One day he will realize he split up his family for a whore that makes minimum wage and lives with her mom. Her only goal in life is to get the latest cell phone and see how fucked up she can get, apparently someone has a coke and pill habit. No surprise one of her best friends is already on this site! I wish him and the good time girl all the best because I can already tell ya it will be anything but! || I don’t care to hear comments about shame on me for taking him back and tolerating this behavior. I did anything but tolerate it, but attempted to work through it. We have 3 kids that love their dad and coming from parents that are still married 33 years later I wanted to make things work. I love this man but he apparently loves too many and its time I look out for myself but apparently she likes being the side bitch. She wouldn’t leave, so I did. When things were good with us they were amazing, when they were bad he turned to a whore. That’s just how he works.